Provide yourself some time for healing: clearly telling your partner that you need some time for healing and take the time to think the matter with more thought. Think, think and think and then make any vital decision that could affect your life.

Do not ever hold yourself responsible: Don’t ever let your cheating spouse understand that you think your look or physical appearance or the work is the reason behind cheating of your partner. Forgive your partner: finally, if your partner really feels sorry for what really he/she has done then simply forgive him/her, because it will be healthy for your relationship only.